After years of overworking, employee starts setting boundaries and gets surprised with 15% raise: 'For years I was the office try-hard'

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  • For years I was the office try-hard- first one in, last to leave, answering emails at midnight, and taking on everyone else's problems.
  • I asked for a promotion three times and kept getting the "we see your potential, just need to wait for the right timing" speech.
  • Last month I hit my breaking point after being passed over again for someone who'd been there half as long but played golf with the VP.
  • I decided I was done killing myself for this place. I started working strictly 9-5, turning off email notifications after hours, and saying "no" to last-minute requests
  • that weren't my responsibility. The weirdest thing happened. My boss called me in yesterday and gave me a 15% raise "for showing such impressive growth in prioritization
  • $ 22 DOLLARS
  • and efficiency." He actually said I'm "more focused and delivering higher quality work" than ever before. I'm completely baffled. Everything I thought would get me ahead
  • (overworking, being available 24/7) actually worked against me, and now that I've stopped trying so hard, suddenly I'm promotion material? Corporate logic makes zero sense.
  • TLDR: After years of overworking with no recognition, I started setting boundaries and working less hours, and now my boss thinks I'm performing better and gave me a raise.
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  • Wonderful_Author9452 Ive seen this before. My theory is sometimes people who are over working, staying late, always hustling give the mistaken appearance they are always behind, catching up at last minute, overwhelmed, can't keep up.
  • Stunning Orange2258 Yes, it's how corporate works. I've set my boundary since day 1. Clock in clock out on time. Never come too early, never stayback late.. I even asked my
  • team not to bring back laptop if there are no urgency.. because it shows that you are not able to manage your time and when people know you are still working after office hours, they will keep that mentality and ask you for nonsense last minute favour every single time...
  • Qkumbazoo The act of prioritisation is giving the appearance of being more strategic, which is more valuable than having high output/productivity when looking to move someone up.
  • Willing-Bit2581 Yup I have coworkers that stay late bc they think everything is a priority and have a worker bee mentality and will never be promoted. I leave at 5 everyday, strategic thinking gets you moving
  • ActiveBarStool scarcity creates value
  • Qalia69 I suspect they fear you were on your way out, so finally someone woke up and decided to "reward" you, so you will stay. Time to be looking anyway perhaps.
  • xcaliblur2 I obviously don't know. anything about you or your job, so my comment is more an "in general" one. Just putting out the other side of the coin for consideration:
  • Sometimes it's not about hard work or how many hours you're willing to work. At a certain level, managers also look at how employees manage their tasks and time.
  • Which may involve making decisions on what tasks would be your priority and what you are willing to let go.
  • I know I'll probably get down voted by the many who will say that there's no such thing as "letting go" and that you're forced to do everything. That's generally only true if you work in a very toxic environment.
  • Your boss may be recognizing that you're making higher level decisions as to how your time is best managed and shifting your focus to the high priority tasks.
  • Again, everything I say is in general only. May be applicable to your current job. May not be.

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